We’re in a society where nobody looks or talks at each other anymore in the streets or other public places, yet looking at people is a natural instinct and helps us gage the other person instantaneously.
For us, humans, and for almost all animal species too, looking at people in the eye is a very good indicator of dominance. The one that turns is head and looks elsewhere first is the submissive one and the one that holds the look is the dominant one, the alpha.
You might think it’s just a detail or that it’s arrogant to look at people in the eye, but if you and a beautiful woman look at each other and you’re the first to look down, you just lost her forever. You’ve unconsciously given her the dominant role in the exchange and women are not attracted by men who lack dominance, confidence, character and leadership.
Most healthy and beautiful women want to feel small in your arms and even the most driven business women want to be led by a men who knows what he’s doing and is not shy about it.
The funny thing is that looking at people in the eye is an easy and powerful way to gain instant respect from other and to look dominant. I don’t care how big, strong, tall and handsome the guy in front of me is, if he’s not an alpha male deep inside, you’ll see his look turn before yours. Oh and, by the way, guys often develop impressive physiques just to compensate a deep lack of confidence, so you’re up for a surprise when testing them.
Looking people in the eye is a powerful tool we developed not only to instantly convey dominance, but also to convey trustworthiness, friendliness, sexual energy and desire. All this is going on under the hood and happens unconsciously. By looking at people and smiling at them, they’ll instantly be attracted to you.
Practicing looking people in the eye
I suggest you start practicing looking at people in the eye right away. Make it a mission to hold a look until the other person looks elsewhere. It doesn’t matter if it’s a child or a 77 years old grand-father, why should they win the staring contest? Be careful of not even flinching because just hesitating for a fraction of a second will make the other person the dominant one.
Try practicing the same thing when having a conversation with someone. If it’s too hard of feels too weird, try focusing at one of the eyes of the other person instead of both.
You’ll be amazed to see just how powerful of a change this is and how some of the most confident looking people will look submissive when you try this. You’ll also be able to feel the power shifting to you and the dominant role given to you right away.
Or course, you’ll come across other confident alpha males as you go along who won’t be shy to look at you directly in the eye and hold. In this case, simply return a slight smile to acknowledge the other person without loosing your alpha male edge.
Looking at women in the eye and then slightly smiling at them will trigger instant attraction because they’ll want to know what you’re all about and they’ll be able to feel your energy, dominance, leadership and sexual energy almost magically.
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